Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Late Night Romps With The Italian Lover

Yup. I'm quite sore again. It was actually really nice, we sat on his couch for a bit, watched The Hangover Two, until we started kissing... Last night was different. He was extremely gentle, and passion, even while we were walking to his house. Before we got to his doorstep, he pulls me over and kisses me. It wasn't the bruisingly rough kiss I was expecting, it was almost... tentative. And our kissing on the couch was no different. We teased each other, licking, and nipping all over, until he decided I was horny enough, and slid off of me... and moved to the other side of the couch. Leaving me excruciatingly horny, and with noo interest in the movie.
After having a cigarette, he climbs on top of me, and starts kissing me again. Maybe it's because this wasn't the first time we were together, but it was so sexy, and so sensual... especially when the soundtrack from the movie blasted a fast paced, rap song.
I LOVE to be bitten, and he knows that... I now have bite marks ALL over my body. And I' so damn proud of it.
After having sex on the couch then on the bed, we move to the shower, which was a lovely experience. First, he lathered my body up with his soap, hands slipping from my arms, to my waist, up my stomach, my breast, then tracing down to my legs, and the junction in between them. Then he pinned me against the wall, kissing and biting as the water washed away the soap. I knelled down, taking his hard cock in my mouth and sucking it until he moaned. Then I sucked his balls, tongue flicking out, tickling and teasing like I know he likes it. He grabbed me under the arm pits, and pushes me against the wall, fingers ramming inside of me.
I loved this love making session because there was of a power play. I'd tease him, licking, and biting then pulling back. When it finally drove him crazy he'd push me against the shower wall, pin my hands over my head, then bite me, and tease me until I'm moaning for him inside of me.
After washing each other's body, and kissing a few more times, we hopped out the shower. He dried me off, wrapping his big towel around me as we walked back to his room.
When we got there, we kissed a bit, and he went to find a drink. I started to put my lotion on, making sure it was the one that smelled extra good. He pressed against my back, inhaling and running his hands over my body... then reached to put in a movie. I curled up on his bed, and he laid behind me, spooning me. Finally, after a few minutes of his hands roaming my body and flipped me onto my back, pulled my legs back until they were by my head, and started fucking me... very, VERY slowly & deeply. I was amazing, I've never had anyone fill like that. We fell into a slow rhythm, bodies rubbing against one another. What I loved most was having his face looming over me, his blue eyes staring into mine, and the kissing and nipping in between moans. I came twice from that alone, the sensation of looking up into his eyes, licking his lips, and knowing ow badly he wanted me... it was too much.
I rode him for a while, slowly arching me back while watch his reacting, before he slammed me onto my back and back fucking me fast and hard. I think by that time I had come about 4 or 5 times. The way he fills me is amazing, and when my legs are pulled all the way back by my head... I can feel his thick cock almost in my stomach....
My body hurts... and neck has bite marks covering it.... my right breast has a clear set of teeth marks... both of my checks are red from my sexy, Italian's teeth... and I'm about to go rub my clit while closing my eyes and thinking of his cock.
Mmmm, I love Italy.

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

The Most Important Part of A New Friendship

Those first few weeks are the most crucial time in a new friendship.Those first two weeks of texting and the occasional "Hey, I'm bored, what's up?" phone calls can make or a possible fuck buddy. But how do we classifier a fuck buddy?

First Class Fuck Buddy (Friend with benefits)-
This is what you want. This is the fuck buddy you can call at 4am, and say "Hey, babe, I'm so depressed, can you come over now?!" and they will either say "FUCK ARE YOU CRAZY" or "Aw, what's wrong? Okay, I'll be right over" (though the latter is most likely) and both ways, you'll still be friends/fuck buddies afterwards. This fuck buddy is a friend with benefit. You can go out socially, and not think twice about it. Many times, this relationship is ruined when one of the fuck buddies develops feelings for the other. If the other doesn't feel the same, the relationship is doomed, but if they do... this could be a winning relationship.

Second Class Fuck Buddies (Simply bed buddies)-
This is a "no-strings-attached", strictly for fucking kind of friend. While you may spend the night, and even be treated to dinner (ordered, not leaving the house, of course), and maybe a bit of lazy, just-because-you're-there snuggling. But you'll never get past that. Like the "friend zone" the "bed buddy zone" is not one easily escaped. To do so, one has to have a lot more than a good sex game.

Third Class Fuck Buddy (The fuck and drop)-
This is the "buddy" you call right after a break up, or just a bad day at work/school. S/he may be desperate enough to think there is some slight chance that you two will be together future and hanging on your every word, or just someone who's lonely, and you can take advantage of. Either way, this will never be a full time relationship. You fuck every day for a good week, then, when YOU'RE emotionally ready, you dump them, ready for a real relationship, or just someone better (someone who'd first or second class).

Fourth Class Fuck Buddy (The booty call)-
This person means nothing. It's not even sex that has you calling them back... it's just the fact that you can. This person can be summoned at anyhow of the night with nothing more than a "Baby, let's fuck.". They'll hang on words like baby, babe, my love, sex, beautiful, and cutie, as they are desperate for attention. Eventually, you grew tired of them, and leave, but they never take it well at first.

How do I know about all of these? Because I've been, or had all of them at least once.

No, I don't want a relationship, and I KNOW you don't either, but I'm the whore?

Double standards amazing me! I love how a guy is amazed when you DON'T want a relationship. Earlier today, I got a call from someone I fucked a long time ago. He called to make sure there were "no hard feelings between us" and that he was "just not emotionally ready for something real". When I laughed, he says "What the fuck are you laughing at?" and I said "Nothing, I just didn't want a relationship either, relax." He was totally dumbstruck. I had to laugh. He even said "Oh, so you just fuck around with guys?" I fuck around? Really? It's totally okay for a guy to fuck everything with legs, but for a woman, she's the village whore.
Now, I know this is an old double standard that no little, angry blog post will fix, but that doesn't mean I have to like it. I, myself, just got out of a really bad relationship. Yes, with the guy I talked about in my previous post (with the giant penis). He actually broke my heart. I generally don't like relationships. Not because I'm not faithful, but because I'm too faithful. I will always do anything for my partner. If we're together, I will do anything in my power to keep you happy. I've learned that, with young men who are too insecure for a relationship. I'm okay with that, just give sex privileges and cuddling when I need it.
But I'm still only fucking around, right?

You don't really know someone until you've fucked them

It's true. With me, I'm a very demanding person out of the bedroom. I am bossy, and little bitchy. Grown men terror from me at work, and I don't take bullshit from people. But once you get me in the bed, I'm submissive, and love a guy to tell me what to do. Things I'd deck you for even trying to say to me, you can get away with in bed. I love it.

One of my bed buddies is a totally out going, crazy guy. He's very macho, and athletic. I was so excited to fuck him, I thought he'd rock my world... but that was a let down. He just laid down there... and said "Ride." Now, I have no problem riding, and doing my share... but doing everything? You don't even lift a finger? Really?

New month. New man. New experiences.

I am extremely bruised, and battered right now, but it was totally willing. Last night I had a true sexcapade. From four in the afternoon, to eleven at night I was being fucked in every way possible. Now, I am not an inexperienced person. If you name a fetish, I've probably done it. Except one. In my many sexual relationships, I have never done anal... except for last night.
This 100% Italian male's member was quite thick. The first time he entered the last unexplored hole in my body it was painful at first, then just awkward. He, of course, enjoyed it immensely. This went on for a few moments, then he flipped me over and fucked me the right way. But the second time we did anal... it was actually kind of sexy. I love doggy style in general. For many women, it is not sensual and loving enough, but to me... it's the most sensual position. Its raw, and aggressive, and very, very real. The feeling of his hands on my back, and my neck.... his hand slapping my ass... it's all too much not to enjoy.

But back to this sexcapade...
I love being bitten. It's so sexy. The harder, the better, really. I told this to my Italian lover once before, and he definitely remembered. I currently have bruise'ish looking bite marks all over my body; one on my chin, one on my cheek, two on my left arm, three on my right arm, three on my back, three on my left leg, two on my right leg, and two on my chest. A grand total of seventeen. Oh, and my nipples, vagina, and ass are still sore. Its wonderful. There's nothing better then that  constant ache after sex. It's like a little reminder your last lover.

Ah, I think I'll have to hit my Italian lover up again soon.... once my bruises aren't as bad..