I feel the need to write this post because, as much sex as I have, I'm also concerned about my health, and that of my partners. As a rule, with a boyfriend, or a regular bed buddy, I get tested with them before having unprotected sex. I have been on the pill since I was about 14 years old, because of harsh periods... it just came in handy.
Whenever I have the "Do you mind getting tested" talk with a boyfriend, and he's offended, I know he's not for me. Someone who cares for you would be flattered that you care enough about them to get tested as well. I get tested regularly, anyhow, but out of courtesy, I get tested with them. (God, the people at Planned Parenthood must think I'm the village whore, I get tested that often, for my own piece of mine.) And for those heat-of-the-hot-moment one night stands, a condom is a must (and a good judge of characters- while you can never tell who is clean by looks, I promise you if you have to think twice about it, you probably shouldn't do it... or them, rather).
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